Marriage - is a very important period in life of every person in our big world. Marriage for centuries has been the keystone of numerous philosophical debates.
As to my mind, I can show you some examples of both sides.
Marriage-lifelong burden. Why? What makes your marriage as lifelong burden?
Marriage-endless happiness. Why? What makes your marriage as endless happiness?
Today I have some answers for these questions.
And, what is marriage? Is it a heaven or a hell? Is it hard or easy? Is it necessary or not?
So, what makes your marriage as lifelong burden:
-misunderstanding with your partner
-disillusionment in your partner
-another men/woman
-alcohol
-pressure for money
-bad temper
-often offence on your partner
- jealousy
- unrequited love
All these trifles makes your life insufferably with your partner .
And what makes your marriage as endless happiness? Can you possibly know all of what makes a good marriage? Of course not – the definition of a “good marriage” is extremely wide.
But I know some motives:
- complete mutual understanding
- mutual concessions
- confidence
-love for your partner
- mutual aid
If all these points in your family-your marriage is endless happiness.
I think that marriage is happiness. Each woman are happy when man sad for her: “Do you want to be my lovely wife?”.
Each woman are happy when soo golden ring.
Each woman are happy when she went with her love in registry office in white dress.
But how you make your life in wedlock-it is your own problem.
But I want to give you some advices:
1. Compromise. Compromise is a huge part of what makes a good marriage – so you need to get the art of compromising down pat. In this case, you can’t expect him from now on to forget watching football when dinner is ready. He does, however, need to join you for the meals. Perhaps you can cook earlier or later to allow him to watch the game. Perhaps you can eat together in front of the tube – less likely, but still a possible solution. Together, you and your hubby can utilize good communication skills and find a solution to the problem that works for both of you.
2. Communicate with each other.
It may sound cliché, but good communication skills is a one of the biggest secrets of a happy marriage. If you don’t communicate with each other, you risk compromising your relationship and your marriage.
If you are speaking to your spouse negatively, you are not going to get very far. Communicate with your spouse positively – it is not as easy as it sounds, but it is important. Even when they forget to take out the trash for the tenth week in a row or turn your underwear pink in the washer, you should express your concerns and needs with a touch of encouragement. Learning the proper ways of communicating with your spouse is one of the keys to a successful union! 3. Make time for each other.
Sounds easier that it is, doesn’t it? But making time for your spouse and spending it with them is one of the most important ingredients in the recipe for a happy marriage.
You don’t have to go out on special, expensive dates together (although those are sometimes nice), but you do have to do things that you both enjoy for some quality one-on-one time together. Make dinner together or rent a movie and watch it at home. Walk the dog, or go grocery shopping together.
Doing things together, even if it’s just routine household chores and the daily grind, will help strengthen your marriage. And one more thing – if your spouse asks to spend time with you, don’t say, “I don’t have time right now.”Make the time.
I think, that marriage nowadays is a happiness. As to my mind, marriages are made in heaven and celebrated on earth. As for me, it is something great in life, new way in life…
Wedding day-it is most important day in life. And how been your marriage a lifelong burden or endless happiness-will be depending only from you!!!
